*Welkom* to our blog! We are the 2008 Group Study Exchange team representing Rotary District 7620 which includes Central Maryland and Washington DC. We will be visiting District 1600, located in the southwestern part of the Netherlands as a part of a professional exchange with members from their district. This exchange is a part of the greater goal of the Rotary Club to promote world peace through the exchange of ideas and the understanding of other cultures. District 1600 includes Rotterdam and The Hague, which are the second and third largest cities in the Netherlands, following Amsterdam. We will be in the Netherlands from April 26 through May 24, during which, we will live with host families, give presentations to several Rotary Clubs and visit vocational sites related to our respective professions. Most of all, we will be immersed in Dutch culture and have many wonderful experiences. We hope you will enjoy reading about our experiences and adventures! *Dank u*

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Sex and Stuff

Similar to my previous blog about crime and punishment comes the topic of sex and stuff. Here in the Netherlands, there are very few teenage pregnancies (teenage being age 15-19). The rate is 8.7 per 1,000 inhabitants. You've probably already guessed where I'm going with this. The rate in the US? 79.8 per 1,000 inhabitants!!! That number really shocked me and I had to triple check it. It is correct though. The US has the highest teenage pregnancy rate of the developed world. As a result of this, we also have one of the highest rates of abortion. The US's rate is actually eight times higher than the NL with a rate of 27.5 to 4.2 (per 1,000). The STD rate in the US is also five times higher than in the NL. An interesting fact, surveys have shown that teens in the US and in the NL start having sex at about the same age.

I first started thinking about this when I was at someone's house here. When I asked where one of the kids was, I was told he had stayed at his girlfriend's house. "Really?" I responded "and you know about that? Do her parents know about it?" Of course, was the answer. The next week we visited a high school and I asked one of the teachers about teenage pregnancy. She said in all of her years as a teacher, she could remember only one girl who was pregnant. I asked if there was sex education in their classrooms and there is. It is similar to ours (I think) in that it is taught in health class. However, all options are covered and discussed openly. Students are told where and how to get contraceptives (btw, the NL has one of the highest contraception use among youth in the world). Abstinence is rarely discussed. It's been awhile since I had a health class so this could've changed since my class. Also, I was in the south which I think varies from other parts of the country and from larger cities. Anyway, the same week I was talking with another girl who also mentioned staying at her boyfriend's. Again I said, "Really? and your parents know?" She went on to tell me quite a bit about this topic and it was all completely foreign to me. Last year when I brought my then boyfriend home with me (I was 27), we had to sleep in different rooms. In fact, I think that I could be 60 and would still have to sleep in separate rooms if I brought a boyfriend to my parents' house (love you mom and dad). It seems that the families here are much more open about a lot of topics that many Americans are afraid to approach. Why? Well, I'm going to have to bring up religion again. Like I said previously, people in the NL aren't as religious. I don't think they see premarital sex as a sin or as a bad thing but as a natural occurrence. They are more open about it, teenagers understand it and how to protect and prepare themselves for it. Religious groups here have very little influence on public policy. Nudity in magazines or on television is not an uncommon thing here. This was also interesting. If the US had the teenage pregnancy rates that the Netherlands have, with our current population, we would have about 657,000 fewer teenage pregnancies and 215 fewer abortions and save $921 million in public costs a year!

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Ok, I'm now officially addicted to this blog. Fascinating. Just yesterday I read part of a report that was released by AIDS Alabama and the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States. First of all, I'd never heard of this council. Next, they're calling on Alabama school systems to updated and correct their sex ed. programs. They use inaccurate information and guilting/shaming tactics to encourage abstinence.

The one that stuck out most for me was that they talk about how if you disrespect yourself by having premarital sex, you'll lose all self respect AND, deservingly, all of your friends. Here's a direct quotation from the report about the importance of the marriage ceremony.

"the curriculum tells students that the tradition of lifting the veil shows that 'the groom [is] the only man allowed to uncover the bride,' and demonstrates 'her respect for him by illustrating that she [has] not allowed any other man to lay claim to her.'"

AHHHHHHH! Obviously, that's just one state's materials, and they vary a lot throughout the country, but it's certainly a controversial subject, as it affects other people's children.

If you're interested in seeing the report, you can view it here: http://www.siecus.org/policy/SpecialReports/Alabama_Report.pdf

In comparing the US to the NL, I'm beginning to think more and more that they're not comparable, both because of size and because that US states have many differences. It seems more appropriate to compare state by state, especially considering the questions that you all keep getting. I think the answers would vary a lot, depending on the state.

Ok, back to work.....